These are some common connectors and pigtails used in the Wireless world. The pictures should help when choosing pigtails to connect a wireless card to an antenna. There are other connectors as well, so hopefully the page will grow to be a definitive guide.
The U.fl connector comes on most MiniPCI cards such as the senao NL-2511MP(prism 2.5 chipset), Senao NL-3054MP(PrismGT chipset), Intel ProWireless, Cisco, Toshiba etc. ( Also known as AMC)

The Lucent connector comes on cards such as the Orinoco PCMCIA. It has a bad reputation as being easily broken. Connects to a antennas that have an N-Female such as the WaveGuide, Yagi, Cantenna and bigger Omni antennas.
The U.fl connector comes on most MiniPCI cards such as the senao NL-2511MP(prism 2.5 chipset), Senao NL-3054MP(PrismGT chipset), Intel ProWireless, Cisco, Toshiba etc. When setting up a WRAP, this pigtail can go on the MiniPCI and the N Female Bulkhead is installed in the case.
The RP-SMA is commonly used on PCI cards and access points/routers that have a removeable antenna. Brands such as Netgear and D-Link have these. Hills Parabolic Dish antennas come with a short length of coax and a N-Male connector, so this pigtail can go between an AP and Hills.
Commonly found on PCMCIA cards such as D-Link, Orinoco and Lucent based cards
Hills Parabolic Dish antennas, among others, come with a short length of coax and a N-Male connector. Connects to alot of anennas that have an N-Female such as the Yagi, Cantenna and bigger Omni antennas.
The RP-SMA Female is commonly used on PCI cards and access points/routers that have a removeable antenna. Brands such as Netgear and D-Link have these.
The RP-SMA Male is commonly used on Antennas that go onto PCI cards and access points/routers that have a removeable antenna. Brands such as Netgear and D-Link have these.
Normal SMA is not commonly used on wireless gear
The RP SMA Female Straight PCB Jack is commonly used on access points/routers and wireless cards that use a removeable antenna. Brands such as Netgear, Mitsubishi, Edimax/UltraWAP,Minitar, and D-Link have these. It is available in a variety of configurations such as straight, right-angled, long straight and edge mount.